I just came
across a piece of news regarding
Eva Mendes supporting her husband Ryan Gosling with his movie Lala Land, and
the way she is being portrayed by the media just frustrates the hell out of me.
Its a crazy racist world. I mean if you choose to work and not have kids, you
are not a good woman. If you choose to just have kids, you are not a good
woman. If you chose to do both -have kids and work- you are so not a good
woman. I guess being a woman means to be critized no matter what and by no
matter who and according to all kind of standards. It is not only in the middle
east. It is everywhere. WTF world!! :/
Did they
even bother to call Eva Mendes and ask her if she found herself forced to stay
at home by him? or the society or they just assumed that if a woman decides to
stay at home, then she's stupid, oppressed and forced by society to do so? Do
you really want women to have their own choice when it comes to life decisions,
or do you want them all to fit in what this picture you have in your mind?
I mean
instead of treating Eva Mendes like a grownup sane human being that is capable
of making her own decisions, the media jumped to the conclusion that she's
oppressed and was forced by her "Man" to make this "shitty"
job of taking care of her kid.
If a woman
decides to stay at home, this doesn't make her in anyway less than a woman who
decided to focus on her career. Stop putting
people into boxes and prejudging them. Stop treating women like stupid human
beings who are being moved around against their will, because they're way much
stronger and resilient than that. -_-
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